Saturday, March 30, 2019

Mistress Barbara has been and remains quite sick. my services have become more medical. Since we were both employed in the healthcare field, this is not overly difficult. Mistress Barbara has directed me to continue writing our story and history. i will endeavor to return to writing. Be aware i do not publish anything that has not been reviewed and approved by Mistress Barbara. We will continue that process. However, if there are possible delays for medical reasons, Mistress Kate will proof my work. She will also punish me for any mistakes when She visits us again. Thank you for your continue support and interest in our FLM. Thank You Everyone.
A Current Moment

On the last day of October, in the United States, we have Halloween. The kids get to wear costumes and go door to door collecting candy. It really is a fun night for the kids. However, it is also a night for special adults to go out dressed. While we still cannot go everywhere with full acceptance, we can go to special parties or clubs where we can show off how pretty we are.

Below are a couple of dresses we think almost anyone could wear. While i like the “illusion-mesh-maxi-dress”, a young or old gurl would look good in either. The knee-high boots with the open toe are just a wonderful idea. Gurl or girl would look great in these boots with pretty toes nail polish. However, the boots are not cheap.

We like this site. i like the name. However, their prices are reasonable, and the normally have great items on sale.

We hope everyone gets to dress and go out on the one night there is more universal acceptance of those of us that are different. you may not be accepted everywhere you go, but dress, go out, keep your chin up, your chest out, and be happy.

Saturday, January 24, 2015

December 26 – Christmas Day for US (Part 2)

I put on a very sheer night-gown and slippers and went downstairs. Mistress Mom had on a very nice full black skirt, black stockings, a sheer blouse, and mules. Mistress Kate worn black tights, a leotard, and a white, very short, jumper, and high heel boots. They both looked absolutely awesome and very powerful. Lady Mary wore stockings, garter, dog collar, leash, wrist cuffs, with a chain between the cuffs. sissy dad had a baby doll top, no panties, which would match the top I left out for sissy k. Neither sissy had any idea what would happen to them today.

When sissy k joined us in the kitchen I could see she was awe struck. I was exposed as I could be while still wearing something. Mistress Mom and Mistress Kate looked more powerful than sissy k could imagine. Lady Mary was a nearly naked slave girl open for the world to see and use. sissy dad was kneeling next to Mistress Mom trying to hide her erection. Clearly she was reacting to seeing her oldest Daughter as an adult and knowing she was going to be a new toy for Mistress Barbara. I took hold of sissy k’s “funny little thing” and pull her over to Mistress Mom for a good morning kiss. While sissy k bent down to kiss her Mistress Mom, Mom reached around her ass and squeezed her balls. Mistress Mom said, if you make a sound before you kiss me I’ll have Lady Mary spank your ass. With a gasp of air, sissy k kissed Mistress Mom. Thank you my little sissy boi, I am sure I’ll get to do more to you before the day is out. Now, kiss your Mistress Kate good morning. I pulled sissy k over to Mistress Kate. Mistress Kate did not touch sissy k until I pulled her over to Lady Mary. At that time, Mistress Kate give sissy k a rather powerful swat to her ass. sissy k jumped and quickly looked at Mistress Kate smiling back at her. Mistress Kate also said, “Lady Mary after sissy k gives you a big French kiss and says Merry Christmas to you, I want you to give her “funny little thing” a big deep kiss.” While that surprised Me, I did not object. I did hear sissy dad squeal, which was followed by a quick slap in the face by Mistress Mom. As quickly as that happened, I realized that was not the first time sissy dad had been slapped. Lady Mary did as directed. While she had sucked sissy k in Germany, she did seem to enjoy doing the deed this morning with sissy dad watching. Gee – I wonder if she has been sucking sissy dad, Mistress Mom had not made mention of such acts.

I announced it was time to open our Christmas stockings, so off to the living room we went. As Head Mistress, I sat in what was always Mom’s chair. sissy k sat down at my knees. Mistress Mom sat in what had been dad’s chair with sissy dad at Her feet. Mistress Kate sat on the couch, with Lady Mary at Her feet. It was now time for Me to set the new tone for our immediate family.

I started; Family, please give Me your attention. Our sissy first lieutenant and I are home. Mom, Kate and Mary were introduced to our new lifestyle while they were in Germany. By the time they each left, They had become sissy k’s Mistresses and Lady. sissy dad learned about our Female Led Marriage when Mistress Mom and Mistress Kate came home and quickly changed her little world. I must say, it looks to Me like sissy dad is very happy now. So there is no mistake, I am the Head Mistress. Both our little sissy bois will do as I or any other Mistress tells them to do. you will do it immediately and without question. Failure to follow directions will result in punishment. This is a new way forward for our family, therefore, everyone must know; you are loved, you are respected, you and your welfare is important to each of your Mistresses, but you are to be total subservient to each Mistress and any other women you meet. Even if a women is not your Mistress, She is superior to you and you will honor Her with your obedience. Lady Mary, the same goes for you. Lady Mary will not be in-charge of you sissies, but, if a Mistress is not around, you better do what she tells you to do. If you do not, I will allow her to punish you in any way she see fit. Because Lady Mary is a women, I know she will not take advantage of any situation. Is that right Lady Mary. “Yes Mistress” was quick Her response. While sissy k and I are here, sissies will not wear male clothes of any kind in the house for longer than it takes to dress and leave the house. Following our dish signal, when you enter the house you will immediately remove all male clothes. Since from now on you will only wear panties or pantyhose, you can leave those on until you are told otherwise. sissy dad, and sissy k, do you understand. Each said, yes Mistress. If you are sent to the corner for punishment, you will remain there with your panties at your ankles, your hands on your head, and your face touching the corner. You will not move. You will not speak unless asked a question by a Mistress. Any Mistress can send you to the corner and any Mistress can spank you. Lady Mary, you will do as Mistress Kate directs you from day to day.

“Lady Mary, you will give each Mistress Her Christmas stocking, while sissy dad gets a bag for the all the paper”. Mistress Mom had really out done Herself. She had new Christmas stockings made; Head Mistress, Mistress Mom, and Mistress Kate were on the top of each stocking. I thought this was so clever since Mistress Barbara was far too many letters for most Christmas stockings. Stockings have always been fun in our family because they contain simple, useful, and relatively inexpensive items. Lipstick, make-up, make-up tools, hair clips, pantyhose or stocking, and socks. However, the key items in My and Mistress Mom’s stocking were at the very bottom of the stockings. When I pulled mine out, sissy k quickly said, gosh are we getting a dog? I noted sissy dad just lowered her head. Mistress Mom and I held up the two red dog collars and leeches for everyone to see.

I now opened a new door for both sissy dad and sissy k. “Lady Mary, please take sissy dad’s and sissy k baby doll tops off, then bring them their stockings. sissies, please close your eyes and get up on your knees. sissies, when you open your eyes you will see your new stocking with your new names. Yes, since you will be our special sissies for the remainder of your lives, it is only fair that you have a proper sissy name.” Mistress Mom said, “dad, I love how you accepted becoming “sissy dad”, however, from now on We will call you “sissy pearl; it is close to your own name and should be easy to remember”. Then I said, sissy k, you know how I love and want you to be our special sissy kay. Mom and I buckled sissy pearl’s and sissy kay’s red collar around their respective necks and attached a leech to each collar. Now open your eyes. These collars are a symbol of your commitments to your Mistresses and your family. While Lady Mary’s collar reflects Her commitment to Mistress Kate, your collars reflect to your commitment to Me, Mistress Mom, and Mistress Kate. Between now and when sissy kay and I go to Maryland, we are going provide the both of you with some intense sissy training. As you can see, your new names are on your stockings. Now it is time for you to open your stockings. After that, both of you will prepare breakfast for us, and clean up. We will start dinner. Then we will open the other presents. sissy pearl, is your new name and future sissy life acceptable to you? Yes Mistress Barbara. sissy kay, is your new name and future sissy life acceptable to you?  Yes Mistress Barbara. Good, now sissies you and Lady Mary can open your stockings.

Sunday, January 4, 2015

December 26 – Christmas Day for US (Part 1)

I am sorry for the long delays in continuing our story. My crazy illness comes more than it goes now. I am lucky, proud, and thankful to have sissy maid k still loving and caring for me. When I started to turn My soldier boi into a sissy I really did not if or how it would go or work, how long it would last, and who would join our journey. Little did I know My Mom, Sister and dad would become the first to our lifestyle, and become a life-long part of our Female Lead Family. I certainly did not know sissy maid k’s training would be so meaningful in My old age healthcare. Our love for each other has certainly worked well for Me (particularly), our family, and sissy maid k. Thank you sissy.

When I pulled sissy k to bed by her “funny little thing”, I could feed her starting to tremble. When I closed the door to our bedroom she fell on the bed, in a fetal position and began to cry. You never know how or when an emotional break might occur, but this level of crying I have never seen from sissy kay. Clearly traveling from Germany in her panties, pantyhose, and camie; they having to put on her skirt, heels, and sweater in the airport parking lot, next to sissy dad doing the same thing; driving home next to sissy dad; wearing a night-gown or being naked most of the day in front of Mistress Mom, Mistress Kate, Lady Mary, and sissy dad, and being told that most of the next few weeks would be spent under the control of any and all Mistresses, was clearly emotional overload for My sissy k.

While I quickly gathered sissy k in my arms and held him close, I also let her cry and cry. As a Domme, You have to know when to let the emotions flow. It was during this emotional break I decided tomorrow would become even more intense and our time on leave would become My “yet to be created sissy boot camp for her”. While I hugged and comforted her, I reassured her I loved her; everyone loved her; she was My special “soldier boi”; she would always be loved by Mistress Mom, Mistress Kate, and sissy dad. She would soon fully realize her special place in our family and continued trust, love, respect, and communications would keep Her safe in My arms. As her crying become more controlled I moved to fix her need to be loved. “Settle down My pretty sissy boi, suck on my lovely tits and make Me feel good, while you settle down. Yes, that’s my little sissy, oh yes, I love you sucking my tits. Yes, settle down and enjoy. See my little sissy, your little clitty is telling me you love being my sissy kay, isn’t that right? sissy k nodded her head yes, but never took her mouth away from My breast. I continued to stroke her and teased her “little funny thing”, which I frequently started call her “clitty”. I had her take my night-gown off (leaving her’s on) and pushed her down between my legs telling her – “your Mistress needs you be eat Her juicy pussy and bring Her to an orgasm”. With My toes I kept touching sissy k and encouraging her to eat me. Once I climaxed, I pulled her up on top of Me, kissed her deeply, and then rolled on top of Her. I pulled her night-gown up, but not off, mounted her and rode her as hard as I could. I knew she would climax quickly, so I spun Myself round and fondled her as she exploded deep inside Me. When I felt her shrinking inside me, I quickly placed My full pussy over her mouth and told her to clean me out. I also took her small clitty in My mouth as her reward for being a wonderful, obedient sissy. When I was cleaned out I held her in My arms, kissed her, and thanked her for being a great lover, exciting pussy eater, a pretty cum sucker, and My very special sissy boi. I then told her – “don’t clean up, just go to sleep in my arms, I want to remember the rewards that are available to a loving and obedient sissy who takes care of her Mistress. I love you sissy k and I want to be My special sissy.”  It was not much longer before sissy was sound asleep in My arms.

In the morning, I woke-up before sissy. I thought about the day ahead and decided I had sissy exactly where I needed her. I slipped out of bed and went downstairs to speak to Mom and Kate. We quickly made plans to take every opportunity to humiliate sissy and then give her warm and loving support and encouragement to be the best sissy possible. We would tease her, play with her, spank her, and make her suck our tits, pussy, and asses. We would undress her, dress her, undress her, tie her up, release her and make Lady Mary suck her and finger her without letting her cum. sissy dad would be required to support everything we did or get spanked as well. sissy k would have to model everything piece of clothing she received and Lady Mary would apply her new make-up in a very classy and feminine look. With our plans made, I went back to wake little sissy k up.

When I entered our bedroom again, sissy k was again curled up have asleep with very damp eyes. I held her in My arms and hugged her, saying – “wake-up my pretty little sissy k; its Christmas for us, and Mrs. Santa I am sure brought My good little girl lots of pretty things.” sissy k hugged me tight, looked up at Me and asked – “Mistress Barbara are You sure You want me to by Your sissy? Do You really want me to do this?” I immediately gave sissy a big kiss, and while stroking her entire body said – Oh my sissy soldier boi, you are the special boi of My life. You are and are going to become everything I want and need; your “funny little thing” is truly small, but I know you are going to do everything I ask to make up for it.” I pulled her night-gown up just enough to start playing with her. I also kissed her again. “See, your little clitty is telling Me you want Me to take care of you, lead you, teach you to be a good little sissy for Me, Mistress Mom, and Mistress Kate. Your little clitty is telling Me you want to go downstairs and embrace Christmas day, and serve your lovely Mistresses by doing everything you are told to do. you are going to make Me proud of you today aren’t you?” I did start stroking her a little faster. sissy started trying to wrap her legs around Me, and slip her silly clitty between My legs, but I held her clitty tight and did not allow her access to me. However, she was rock hard and getting very ready to explode. While kissing her, I firmly squeezed the base of her clitty. After breaking away from her kiss, I said – “sissy k, now everyone is up and waiting for us. Go clean up, and shave. I’ll leave a night-gown out for you to wear. Come down and join us. We will open our Christmas stockings, then have some breakfast, then open our presents. you need to be fresh and ready for an exciting day. By tonight, I am sure you will be ready for some serious loving. Right? Now give Me a big kiss, a big smile, and take off your love messy gown and go clean up.” While still holding her little clitty, sissy k kissed me, took off her nightgown, and went into the bathroom.

Based sissy k’s reaction, which I think was prompted by seeing and being with sissy dad, I took advantage of the situation and made a big modification to my long range plans. sissy k had no idea, but loved and trusted Me. her life was about to become very intense. 

Mistress Barbara 

Thursday, January 1, 2015

2015 Happy New Year's

Good morning,

Mistress Barbara and i wish everyone a happy and exciting 2015.

While Mistress Barbara was in bed all day yesterday, it was Her own bed (not in hospital). She had me in my best maid's uniform all day, caged, and plugged. It was a good day for me. i also spent the New Year's New York ball drop period deep between Mistress Barbara's legs bringing in Her New Year in Her favorite state of joy and happiness. It was the best New Year's we have had in years.

We hope everyone had the opportunity to start 2015 in similar joy and happiness. For those in long-term FLR/FLM, we trust you re-committed yourselves to each other and our chosen lifestyle for the next year. sub's and sissy's, we trust you pledged your continued commitment to and support of your Mistress. Likewise, we trust each Mistress showed Your sub/sissy a preview of their life in 2015.

If You had Your first experience as Mistress, we hope Your sub/sissy met or exceeded Your expectations, and You will continue and expand Your FLR/FLM throughout 2015. Even if Your holiday experience was not perfect, we hope both of you found fun, love, respect, good communications, and value in the experience. Remember, there is no required process or event that You have to replicate. It is just what works for You and Your sub/sissy. So, please extend Your leadership role throughout today. Have another exceptional love making session this morning, this afternoon, and tonight. If You can continue Your Superior role through next Sunday, do it. Four or five days taking control of Your sub/sissy will go a long way to confirming the value and importance of a FLR/FLM. Going out visiting friends or shopping with sub/sissy wearing panties under her jeans is a part of control. You and Your sub/sissy are the only ones who know, which is the early point. We wish You a wonderful year, and a warm, loved-fill 2015 as the Superior leader of Your family.

If You tried and it just did not work for you, Thank You for trying. Thank You for taking a moment to exert Your Superiority. Please consider another try, perhaps 4th of July weekend, or the period between next Christmas and New Years. Talk with Your sub/sissy. Please be sure to discuss the experience completely. If possible, please consider how You might improve the experience for You and Your sub/sissy. The reality is most likely that You are in charge of Your relationship anyway. In most cases, it is only a matter of Your desire to expand Your control.

Again, we wish everyone a great 2015. We hope Your Superiority will shine throughout the year. We hope the skills of Your sub/sissy will continue to improve. Love, respect, and good communications will always keep Your FLR/FLM on track. Love and hugs to everyone...

Mistress Barbara, and
sissy maid kay

Monday, August 25, 2014

Christmas Day followed by Christmas (1972)

i was quite surprised to be carrying our bags into the house in my skirt, heels, and sweater. With sissy dad, we only had to make one trip, but I was sure we would caught by some neighbor. Just as i had been taught, sissy dad removed his skirt and sweater. i also removed mine. we carried the bags up stairs to the guest room and returned to the kitchen. Mistress Kate and Lady Mary were in the kitchen with Mistress Barbara and Mistress Mom. Lady Mary was dressed to match sissy dad and i, except her hands were tied behind her back and she had a dog collar around her neck and dog leash attached to the collar. My mind went for a big spin. Not saying a thing, i am wondering what happened since she and Mistress Kate left Germany.

Mistress Mom had fixed some tea and Christmas cookies. Mistress Mom stated that Mistress Barbara and i would take a nap. Later we would have a small meal, catch up on things, and get to bed early. We would have our real Christmas tomorrow on the 26th. In the morning, we would have breakfast and then open our stockings. Mistress Barbara and i would simply enjoy breakfast and not have to help with the breakfast clean-up. However, everyone would help prepare the turkey and Christmas meal. The Ladies and would prepare most everything and Lady Mary and the sissies would fetch and clean as directed. Mistress Mom noted there would be plenty of wooden spoons around any Mistress felt someone needed correction or motivation. After more welcome home hugs and a couple of loving swats to my pantied butt, Mistress Barbara and i went up-stairs for a nap. Until we lay down on the bed, we did not realize how exhausted we were. A quick welcome home hug and kiss of our own, then we both went right to sleep.

We slept until about 8 PM. Mistress Barbara had packed a night gown for me. i shaved, put on a bra, night gown, garter, stockings, and my new heels. Mistress Barbara always understood me and was always very supportive. Mistress realized how nervous and excited i was. Yes, Mistress Mom, Mistress Kate, and Lady Mary had seen me dressed and undressed, but i was still uncertain. Add to that, now sissy dad was also present and both knew and could see GI Joe was just a sissy. Mistress Barbara supported me with words, hugs, kisses, and steady support. In fact, to my surprise, Her support was stronger than i thought. By the time we entered the living room, sissy dad and Lady Mary we kneeling on the floor. Mistress Mom and Mistress Kate were seated. They immediately started clapping as Mistress Barbara pushed my very small but hard sissy cock and me into the room first. With Her arms around me, She managed to twist my body left and right to give everyone a profile view of my tented night gown. She directed me to kneel beside Her chair. A round of welcome home, thanks, and everyone providing supportive words for the two sissies quickly followed the clapping.   

Mistress Kate and Lady Mary had prepared a spaghetti dinner for everyone. Lady Mary served a round of drinks for everyone. She returned to the kitchen to get everything on the table. i did offer to help, but was told to kneel and enjoy my drink for this evening. When everything was ready, Mistress Kate invited everyone to dinner. Lady Mary was directed to lead sissy dad and sissy kay to the table. i am always amazed and shocked by things that just seem to happen. Lady Mary helped sissy dad up, reach under his night gown and took hold of his cock. She then did the same thing to me. Mistress Mom and Mistress Barbara had already taken their seats at the table. Mistress Kate then took hold of Lady Mary’s leash, and lead we subs to the table. Sissy dad and i were release by our chairs and Mistress Kate lead Lady Mary to her chair.  It is almost needless to say, sissy dad and i were hard when we sat down.

The meal looked wonderful and clearly everyone was hungry. Mistress Mom quickly said; “before we eat, I want to toast My special daughter Barbara for bring such an unexpected change to our family, and to lovely Kate for Her support in help Me change My life at home. I do not know where or how dear Barbara led us to become Mistresses, but for sissy dad and Me, it added a new and exciting life for us. With the support of lovely Mistress Kate and Her dear submissive Lady Mary, we have radically changed old dad here into a wonderful, cooperative sissy toy for our mutual enjoyment. Of course I don’t think any of this would have developed if it were not for my visit with Mistress Barbara and sissy kay in Germany. While nudity was never a big deal around here, My authorized access to sissy kay was exciting, amazing, and kindled a side of Me I did not know existed. So here is a toast to everyone at the table, thank you for being yourselves, thank you for your Dominant and submissive roles, thank you for expanding our family concept of love and sharing. To Lady Mary, sissy dad, and sissy kay, I think we are all going learn a lot, share a lot of new adventures, with a combination of deep love and may be some amount of pain. So thank you for being here for Christmas, and the next couple of weeks. Thank you all and cheers!”

If you are new to the FLM/FLR lifestyle, i hope you get the same chance to be both proud of your Mistress and scared to death about all the things implied in such a wonderful toast.

Following Mistress Mom’s toast, our dinner went rather normally. The conversation centered on our sudden transfer from Germany to Maryland. Mistress Barbara and i have stories about arranging the move, the packers speed, moving the car to the port, moving into temporary quarters, and clearing the post. i had to discuss how it felt to travel in my sissy underwear. Did i think anyone saw my stockings? Mistress Kate wanted to know how it felt putting on my skirt and heels with sissy dad in the parking lot. Of course, Mistress Barbara noting that both sissy dad and i were getting hard from the conversation. As much as possible, my input consisted of rather short answers. It is so difficult for a sissy to hide her humiliation and true feelings.

sissy dad and i did clear the table before desert. Mistress Kate and Lady Mary served ice cream, pie, and hot tea. sissy dad and i cleared the table again. we left the tea cups and added some cookies to the table so the conversation could continue. Ordered to load the dishwasher and clean up the rest of the dishes, Lady Mary work quickly and quietly. Mistress Barbara directed sissy dad and i to take off our nightgowns and listen to the remainder of the conversation. We could serve tea when needed and do anything else we were told. However, we no longer need to contribute to the conversation. Plans were make for opening the presents tomorrow, cooking dinner, post Christmas training requirements, and a general discussion of picking up the car at the port, and the need to go to Maryland to find an apartment.

Honestly, it did not take very long to realize sissy dad and i would be naked or nearly naked a lot. The only question was would it be with just these family members, or anyone. Only time would tell.

In the early stages of building a new lifestyle, almost everything everyone does or does not do, reacts to or does not react to, says or does not say is scary, exciting, embarrassing, humiliating and fun moments for each person at the same time. The first time Mistress Mom walked in on me naked was embarrassing and humiliating for me, but fun for Mistress Mom. By the end of Her visit, our interactions were not quite as embarrassing or humiliating (not quite as, but still…). Mistress Mom however was very comfortable and happy about our new relationship and Her authority and control over me. Likewise, the first time sissy dad became subservient to his youngest Daughter, Mistress Kate and Lady Mary, had to be embarrassing and humiliating to him. Clearly it was fun for Mistress Kate, and slightly less exciting for Lady Mary. Now, here was sissy dad humble and obedient, and dealing with his new reality as sissy to his oldest Daughter with Her sissy husband. In addition, a sissy son-in-law he knew his Mistress/Wife had played with and had control over. This contrast of emotions was not only present in each moment; clearly, it was building during this entire after dinner conversation. Of course, Mistress Barbara is showing Her support of me by kissing me each time She got up for the table, stroking me, quietly asking Lady Mary if she want to suck me, but never giving permission, simply added to my humiliation and the happiness of everyone else. Honestly, i was close to crying, but somehow i knew better. Around 12:30 AM Mistress Barbara had me put my nightgown back on, told be to kiss Mistress Mom, Mistress Kate, and Lady Mary good night. Each of the Ladies gave me a big, deep kiss, and squeezed my little (although hard) sissy cock, and said good night sissy kay. Mistress Barbara did the same to Her sissy dad. Then She reached under by nightgown and pulled me off to bed. Mistress Barbara held me tight. i did cry. She rode me and i quickly exploded. i then cleaned Her out, which led to a couple of great orgasms for Her. We fell asleep. We did not even think about what Santa might have brought. 

As you look back on these seminal events in your life, the reality is still hard to understand, yet such things become normal, loving, trusting, and comfortable after all these years. While we have learned we were not and are alone, at the time we were sure we were the only crazy people in the world. Now, we can advise others to explore and enjoy. Hold love, respect, communication, and trust as the foundation for your lifestyle. When you discover a limit, honor that limit. Even if you test that limit in the future do so with care and recognition that a persons’ limit may or may not expand. It not, show respect, not anger, and back down a little. On the edge, you both have fun, over the edge; only one of you has any fun.

Christmas Day follows for us. How could Christmas change so much?

Saturday, August 16, 2014

Special Note:

Mistress Barbara has been in charge of me for 43 years. We believe the key has less to do with the day to day dress, tasks, punishments, and rewards, but more to do with the elements in respect, love, liking each other, and communications. A FLR/FLM, or Dom/sub relationship does not have to be filled with mean, harsh, disrespectful treatment. Life changes all the time; meeting new friends in the life and unaware of the life, family events of all kinds, children, job changes and home relocations, family and friend deaths, good health and illness, vacations and over-work, all of which require some adjustment in how you manage your relationship. The conditions of life can change in an instant. Throughout all the changes your FLR/FLM can continue, but adjusts as necessary. With good communications, including humor, each of you can remain true and supportive of each other. Remember, as a sub cares for his/her Mistress/Dom, the Mistress/Dom also care for their subs. Throughout the years, you must also work to like each other, to want to be with each other, to care enough to give your very best to each other. It is likely your overt actions will change while you are raising children. subs may still wash; cook and clean wearing panties, but the apron may not be as frilly as it was without children (Mistress’s choice). When the kids leave the house, or are old enough to be encouraged or trained into the lifestyle, a new maid uniform might appear. If your lifestyle remains private while the children are home, the excitement on reinstatement day will be as much fun as it was 20 or more years ago. In long-term relationships health issues will present themselves. If sub has a heart attack at age 67, Mistress/Dom will have to care for sub. After years of respect, love, and good communications this should be within the normal flow of the relationship. In our case, Mistress Barbara has been sick for many years now. With visitors at home or when Mistress is in hospital, with my cage, and me in panties Mistress Barbara always tells people, "k finds a way to make Me smile everyday". We like being with each. We love each other. The day to day tasks have change, but Mistress Barbara is still in charge. i still make sure Her needs are met, but things are different. 

Our advise - work at keeping your relationship healthy - like each other, love each other, respect each other, and over time adjust everything as necessary. Do not worry, confront issues and make changes to stay fresh and in love.

Saturday, April 12, 2014

Returning to the States (1972)

Our account of Mistress Barbars training program has been interupted. We want to get back to our development in hopes that it might help others. Mistress Barbara's health events continue and have contributed to our delays. However, Her training has prepared me to care for Her, and She continues to have a very positive attitude. We thank everyone for your very kind words and support. Thank you very much. 

Returning to the States

Just after Thanksgiving 1972 we received orders to return to the States. Based on some work our unit did, I received orders to return to Maryland. We had about three weeks to move. It is amazing how efficiently the Army can move a family.

As it turned out, we would be travelling in time to arrive home on Christmas Day. Mistress Mom would pick us up at the airport. We shipped our rapidly purchased Christmas presents and mailed the home. Fortunately, Mistress Mom held our present at home and did not send them to Germany. Our friends drove us to the airport in Frankfurt.

Since we would be travelling at the busiest time of the year, Mistress Barbara decided we should wear matching stockings, garters, and panties for the trip home. Although I would be travelling in uniform, Mistress Barbara felt it would be a low risk and a lot of fun. So offer we went with me wearing my femme underwear looking like a big soldier. We had not trouble on the flight. My uniform was a big help when we arrived in Philadelphia and need to get a flight to Boston.

We arrived early afternoon. Mistress Mom and sissy dad met us at the airport. We received a very warm welcome at the airport with big hugs and kisses. Being home for Christmas with family was going to be great. We gathered our bags and went to car in the parking lot. When all the bags were in the trunk, Mistress Barbara said; “sissy dad, are you wearing your stocking and panties like ms k?” Wow, I am tired from travelling, and both dad and i are turning red (not from the cold air), and for the first time my position was made know to another male. dad quickly replied; “yes Mistress”. Mistress Mom produced a bag for each of us and said; “Ok gurls, strip out of those stupid clothes and put on these clothes”. She handed each of us a bag. As trained, we each took off our male clothes and put on our new clothes. For me there was a bra, sweater, skirt, and a new pair of low heels, in my size! I had never worn heels of any kind. My sweater matched sissy dad’s, and her skirt and shoes matched mine. I now understood why I was wearing stocking and panties on the flight. Of course in 1972 there were no camera in the parking lot, and at Christmas, no was paying any attention to us. We sat in the back set. Mistress Mom drove. In less than an hour we would be home. sissy dad and i did not look at each other, nor did we speak other than to answer Mistress Mom and Mistress Barbara’s questions. Mistress Mom wanted to know about the flight home and how well i was enjoying wearing my panties and other famine clothes. Mistress Barbara asked sissy dad how he was enjoying his new life and serving all the Superior Women in his new life. When we were close to home Mistress Barbara looked at me and said, “we are not in the Army for the next month, so ms k, you will learn as much as you can from sissy dad. you will do everything We Women tell you to do, you will dress as directed, and if you do not know how to do something, you will ask sissy dad how she does it. While we are home, you are going to learn all kinds of wonderful sissy things. Do you understand? i quickly replied yes Mistress; thank you for this opportunity.

Christmas 1972 was another big step forward for sissy maid k. We have wonderful memories of our first Christmas at home.